Family & Relationships Vocabulary

50+ Chinese words for family members, relationships, and social connections, with pinyin, English, examples, and HSK levels.

Family Members (家庭成员 jiātíng chéngyuán)

Note on Chinese address terms: Chinese distinguishes between paternal and maternal relatives. Your father's parents are 爷爷/奶奶 (yéye/nǎinai), while your mother's parents are 外公/外婆 (wàigōng/wàipó). Siblings are also addressed differently based on relative age: 哥哥 (older brother) vs 弟弟 (younger brother).

Immediate Family (直系亲属 zhíxì qīnshǔ)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
爸爸 bàba father / dad 我爸爸是老师。My dad is a teacher. 1
妈妈 māma mother / mom 妈妈做的饭很好吃。Mom's cooking is delicious. 1
父母 fùmǔ parents 我父母住在北京。My parents live in Beijing. 3
哥哥 gēge older brother 我哥哥比我大三岁。My older brother is 3 years older than me. 1
姐姐 jiějie older sister 姐姐在上海工作。My older sister works in Shanghai. 1
弟弟 dìdi younger brother 弟弟今年六岁。My younger brother is 6 this year. 1
妹妹 mèimei younger sister 妹妹喜欢唱歌。My younger sister likes to sing. 1
儿子 érzi son 他有一个儿子。He has one son. 2
女儿 nǚ'ér daughter 她的女儿很聪明。Her daughter is very smart. 2
孩子 háizi child / children 你有几个孩子?How many children do you have? 1
丈夫 zhàngfu husband 她丈夫是医生。Her husband is a doctor. 3
妻子 qīzi wife 他妻子在家工作。His wife works from home. 3
老公 lǎogōng husband (colloquial) 我老公很帅。My husband is very handsome. —
老婆 lǎopó wife (colloquial) 老婆,吃饭了!Honey, time to eat! —

Paternal Relatives (父方亲戚 fùfāng qīnqi)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
爷爷 yéye paternal grandfather 爷爷每天早上打太极。Grandpa does tai chi every morning. 2
奶奶 nǎinai paternal grandmother 奶奶做的饺子最好吃。Grandma's dumplings are the best. 2
祖父 zǔfù paternal grandfather (formal) 祖父今年八十岁了。My grandfather is 80 this year. 4
祖母 zǔmǔ paternal grandmother (formal) 祖母身体很健康。My grandmother is in good health. 4
叔叔 shūshu father's younger brother / uncle 叔叔送给我一本书。My uncle gave me a book. 3
伯伯 bóbo father's older brother 伯伯家在广州。My uncle's family is in Guangzhou. —
姑姑 gūgu father's sister / aunt 姑姑明天来我们家。Auntie is coming to our house tomorrow. —
堂哥 táng gē father's brother's son (older) 堂哥和我一起去学校。My cousin and I go to school together. —
堂弟 táng dì father's brother's son (younger) 堂弟很调皮。My younger cousin is naughty. —
侄子 zhízi nephew (brother's son) 侄子今年三岁了。My nephew is 3 this year. —
侄女 zhínǚ niece (brother's daughter) 侄女很可爱。My niece is very cute. —

Maternal Relatives (母方亲戚 mǔfāng qīnqi)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
外公 wàigōng maternal grandfather 外公喜欢钓鱼。My maternal grandpa likes fishing. —
外婆 wàipó maternal grandmother 外婆住在农村。My maternal grandma lives in the countryside. —
姥爷 lǎoye maternal grandfather (N. China) 姥爷讲故事给我听。Grandpa tells me stories. —
姥姥 lǎolao maternal grandmother (N. China) 姥姥每天接我放学。Grandma picks me up from school every day. —
舅舅 jiùjiu mother's brother / uncle 舅舅在美国工作。My uncle works in the US. —
阿姨 āyí mother's sister / aunt; also "auntie" 阿姨送给我礼物。Auntie gave me a gift. 2
表哥 biǎogē maternal cousin (older male) 表哥考上了北京大学。My cousin got into Peking University. —
表姐 biǎojiě maternal cousin (older female) 表姐结婚了。My older female cousin got married. —
表弟 biǎodì maternal cousin (younger male) 表弟在读高中。My younger cousin is in high school. —
表妹 biǎomèi maternal cousin (younger female) 表妹非常聪明。My younger female cousin is very smart. —
外甥 wàishenɡ nephew (sister's son) 外甥长得像他爸爸。My nephew looks like his father. —
外甥女 wàishengnǚ niece (sister's daughter) 外甥女很喜欢画画。My niece loves drawing. —

Grandchildren & Extended

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
孙子 sūnzi grandson (son's son) 爷爷很疼孙子。Grandpa dotes on his grandson. 4
孙女 sūnnǚ granddaughter (son's daughter) 孙女每周末来看我们。Our granddaughter visits us every weekend. —
外孙 wàisūn grandson (daughter's son) 外孙很活泼。My daughter's son is very lively. —
外孙女 wàisūnnǚ granddaughter (daughter's daughter) 外孙女和奶奶很亲。My granddaughter is very close to grandma. —
亲戚 qīnqi relatives 过年的时候,亲戚都来了。During New Year, all the relatives came. 4

Social Relationships (社会关系 shèhuì guānxi)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
朋友 péngyou friend 他是我最好的朋友。He is my best friend. 1
好朋友 hǎo péngyou good friend / best friend 我们是好朋友。We are good friends. 1
同学 tóngxué classmate / schoolmate 这是我的同学王红。This is my classmate Wang Hong. 1
同事 tóngshì colleague / coworker 我和同事一起去吃午饭。I have lunch with my colleagues. 3
邻居 línjū neighbor 我们的邻居很友好。Our neighbors are very friendly. 3
男朋友 nánpéngyou boyfriend 她男朋友很高。Her boyfriend is very tall. 2
女朋友 nǚpéngyou girlfriend 他有女朋友了!He has a girlfriend now! 2
老板 lǎobǎn boss 老板对我们很好。The boss is very good to us. 3
上司 shàngsī superior / supervisor 我上司批准了我的假期。My supervisor approved my leave. —
下属 xiàshǔ subordinate 他有五个下属。He has five subordinates. —
陌生人 mòshēngrén stranger 不要和陌生人说话。Don't talk to strangers. —

Relationship Events (关系事件 guānxi shìjiàn)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
结婚 jiéhūn to get married 他们去年结婚了。They got married last year. 3
离婚 líhūn to get divorced 他们离婚了。They got divorced. 4
订婚 dìnghūn to get engaged 他们刚订婚。They just got engaged. —
恋爱 liàn'ài to be in a romantic relationship 他们在谈恋爱。They are dating. 4
分手 fēnshǒu to break up 他们分手了。They broke up. —

Family & Home (家庭与家 jiātíng yǔ jiā)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
家 jiā home / family / house 我回家了。I'm home. 1
家庭 jiātíng family (as a unit) 我的家庭有四口人。My family has four people. 2
家人 jiārén family members 我很想家人。I miss my family. 3
家乡 jiāxiāng hometown 我的家乡在四川。My hometown is in Sichuan. 4
父亲 fùqīn father (formal) 父亲节快乐!Happy Father's Day! 3
母亲 mǔqīn mother (formal) 母亲节快乐!Happy Mother's Day! 3
兄弟 xiōngdì brothers / siblings (male) 我们是兄弟!We are brothers! 4
姐妹 jiěmèi sisters / female siblings 她们是姐妹。They are sisters. 4
独生子女 dúshēng zǐnǚ only child 他是独生子女。He is an only child. —

Key Grammar Notes

Expressing possession: Use 的 (de) between pronoun and family term:

  • 我的爸爸 (wǒ de bàba) — my father
  • 他的妻子 (tā de qīzi) — his wife

Counting family members: Use 口 (kǒu) as measure word:

  • 我家有三口人。(Wǒ jiā yǒu sān kǒu rén.) — My family has three people.

Addressing vs. referring: In Chinese, you call your father 爸爸 to his face but may say 我爸 (wǒ bà) when referring to him in conversation.

Paternal vs. Maternal distinction:

Relative Paternal Side Maternal Side
Grandfather 爷爷 yéye 外公 wàigōng / 姥爷 lǎoye
Grandmother 奶奶 nǎinai 外婆 wàipó / 姥姥 lǎolao
Uncle 叔叔 shūshu / 伯伯 bóbo 舅舅 jiùjiu
Aunt 姑姑 gūgu 阿姨 āyí
Cousin 堂哥/堂弟/堂姐/堂妹 表哥/表弟/表姐/表妹